现在已经将近十点半了,有多少人和我一样还没有睡?你在干什么呢?
是在赶着作业?还是在电脑前漫无目的地闲逛着?或者窝在温暖的被窝里用手机上网?又或者在听着音乐?
不论在干什么,只要此刻是微笑着就足够.
虽然今天很冷,可是有灿烂的阳光.,总感觉只要阳光灿烂,心情就会变得很好.
在上课的时候,无意中拉开窗帘,看着从树林中依稀散落的阳光,配着蓝天白云,一切舒适而惬意.
老师在讲台上挥斥方遒,我却在心不在焉着,早已神游天外.
趴在桌上,看着窗外的风景,许多思绪就这样飘过.
为什么恋爱了之后要结婚呢,不能够一直处在正在进行时的状态吗?那一纸证书更多的是想要说明或者证明什么呢?
既然很多人在结婚后会离婚,为何不一开始就不结婚呢?
恋爱着指不定会获得更好的结局?
婚后柴米油盐酱醋茶的平淡生活会彻底打碎婚前的美好幻想,日子久了,生活就真的没有激情了.
男人会出轨,会有外遇,会有小三,会对你不忠诚.
而女人,为人之妻,作为这个评判一个好妻子的标准,就必然要贤良淑德,那么依据是什么呢?是不断地忍气吞声,对于男人的一次又一次不重保有彻底的原谅.
这是我们的主流价值观所赋予我们的.
然后男人就完全没有后顾之忧的在外面花天酒地,这就是所谓的“家里红旗不倒,外面彩旗飘飘”.
即使在外如何的胡作非为,妻子永远要在丈夫酒醉后送上一杯醒酒茶.
这样的婚姻又有何意义呢?难道为的只是图一个好名声吗?
怪不得小时候看的童话故事的结局永远只是,从此,王子和公主幸福地生活在一起了.
可是幸福就真的那么容易吗?这样很简单的就可以幸福了吗?
婚后的生活大概是没有新意而永远不被提及了吧.
童话永远不是现实,只是人们的精神寄托罢了.
现实是童话最好的醒酒剂.
童话只是用来被打碎的.
当现实的压力你承载不了时,童话已被彻底弃置.
清醒而现实着生活有什么不好?
我们不是灰姑娘不努力就会有南瓜车,就会有仙女来帮忙.还有水晶鞋,在舞会上遇到只属于她的王子.
我们只是这万千大众中最平凡的一个,稍不注意,就会被淹没在人群中.
而一丝一毫小小的幸福我们都要努力抓住,因为不抓紧,就会消逝不见.
所以,我们每天要问自己的不是你遇到了你的王子吗?
而是,你今天足够努力了吗?---------------------------------------
Torn Between Tow Lovers
There are times
when a woman has to say whats on her mind
Even though she knows
How much its gonna hurt
Before I say another word
Let me tell you I love you
Let me hold you close
And say these words as gently as I can
Theres been another man
That Ive needed and Ive loved
But that doesnt mean I love you less
And he knows you cant possess me
And he knows he never will
Theres just this empty place inside of me
That only he can fill
Torn between two lovers, feelin like a fool
Lovin both of you is breakin all the rules
Torn between two lovers, feelin like a fool
Lovin you both is breakin all the rules
You mustnt think youve failed me
Just because theres someone else
You were the first real love I ever had
And all the things I ever said,
I swear they still are true
For no one else
Can have the part of me I gave to you
Torn between two lovers, feelin like a fool
Lovin both of you is breakin all the rules
Torn between two lovers, feelin like a fool
Lovin both of you is breakin all the rules
I couldnt really blame you
If you turned and walked away
But with everything I feel inside,
Im asking you to stay
Torn between two lovers Feelin like a fool
Lovin both of you is breakin all the rules
Torn between two lovers, feelin like a fool
Lovin both of you is breakin all the rules
Torn between two lovers, feelin like a fool
Lovin you both is breakin all the rules
[ 此帖被天尘在2010-12-28 10:33重新编辑 ]